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Originally Posted by Trigger
EDIT-- i forgot to say, i've decided to refuse to do 90/90. while AA has been an overwhelmingly positive force in my life, i need to also develop my identity as a non-addict. so i'm going to stand up to my sponsor about this... ummm, you guys think this is a good idea?
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to me...the whole '90/90' gig is a crock of sh+t. I do think its advisable to go to many meetings early on (hell, I ONLY felt comfortable sitting in a meeting for the first few weeks), but there is no magic in 90/90. it wasn't asked of me....and I don't ask it of any women I sponsor.
but....she IS your sponsor. there IS something to be said about taking direction and not running the show anymore....(at least for awhile...heh.)
peace
j